Several inexperienced women are clueless about how they can get involved with men for sexual intercourse. We asked around several women and found 5 major questions women have about penises and male reproductive health, and we were surprised.
- Are you horny first thing in the morning?
A lot of women probably share this same thought in their minds but are afraid to actually voice it due to not wanting to sound rude. Many women wonder if guys are naturally horny all the time that they get erections first thing in the morning. Many women probably secretly think that it’s such a perverted thing to do, but none can be further from the truth.
Well, we don’t know if the guy you are interested in is actually a pervert or what, but all males experience the ‘morning wood’ as part of their biology. Being able to ‘get it up’ first thing in the morning simply means the man is healthy and his blood vessels are working properly enough to send blood to this part of the body as well. So, be glad that your man gets a morning wood at all because that means he is not suffering from ED.
- Do you dream of having sex when you’re getting a boner in your sleep?
Quite similar to the reason men get ‘morning wood’ first thing in the morning, a lot of men can get a boner while they are sleeping for very biologic reasons.
Before we dive deeper, what people term the ‘morning wood’ is actually the exact same thing as the erections men get during sleep at night. It’s just called ‘morning wood’ because most men would wake up in the morning and find themselves ‘hard’.
An article appearing in the Medical News Today website states that men do experience wet dreams even long after puberty. Still, these emissions aren’t necessarily not related to having the nocturnal erection.
Night erection happens several times at night, but most don’t trigger sexual dreams, which may or may not cause involuntary ejaculation.
With that said, the explanation to this is pretty much the same: that it’s all mostly a biological occurrence in which the brain sends neurotransmitters that tell the body to send more blood towards the penis so it gets hard several times during sleep. Nobody knows for sure WHY or for WHAT purpose these night-time erections happen, but that’s the explanation we’ve got so far.
- Did it hurt the first time you had sex?
It may sound a bit unfair, but sex for the first time does not hurt for guys, like, at all. Unless the person in question has some severe health issues with his phallus—like, if he is suffering from the Peyronie’s disease, which can make penetration painful due to the phallus being bent too much.
Plus, think about it: most guys would have had an experience with masturbation long before they had sex for the first time. It’s pretty much just like that—skin to skin friction. Only it feels better for them when the other skin is another person’s wet vagina instead of a Vaseline-lubricated hand.
But it may surprise you to know some men are more worried about hurting you instead of them getting hurt. Another thing that may be difficult for men is how they expect themselves to perform even though it’s only their first time.
- Does the penis have the self-cleaning ability like the vagina?
The vagina is quite known to have a self-cleaning ability for the inner part of its being (not the labia, that part needs cleaning), but the penis does not seem to have the same ability. At least, we think it’s not on par with the vagina’s self-cleaning mechanism.
The penis is also capable of maintaining its own ecosystem, but it does need some basic cleaning to get rid of smegma. Smegma comprise of dead skin cells, oil secretion and moisture, byproducts that arise due to the gentials trying to naturally riding themselves of dirt.
Smegma is produced in men by the Tysons glands under the foreskin to offer protection and lubrication to the penis. But also produce it, per a January 6 2018 Medical News Today publication.
The penis’ natural lubricant that keeps it moist, but if it doesn’t get cleaned after a few days, it can build up and cause some pretty nasty smell.
So, a basic cleaning with water and soap (preferably unscented) is still needed. But the penis clearly doesn’t need some deodorant or perfumed spray to help it smell nice. What’s the point in masking an unpleasant smell if the bacteria are still there?
- Why are you obsessed with size?
A valid question. Why are men obsessed with size? Actually, men may be obsessed with penis size for the same reason women are concerned about boobs size, but they do have a tendency to go overboard with it. Basically, it has been suggested that people’s obsession with sizes simply comes from inherited expectations.
You can’t deny that in this unfortunately very patriarchal world, a lot of men get the subliminal idea that their entire manliness depends on the size of their schlong.
There is this idea that a man is not manly enough if he grows up with less than average penis size, which is absolutely not true because being a MAN is so much more than just having a big dick that can satisfy a woman, right? Plus, most men don’t even know that the average penis size isn’t even that big because they’ve watched too much porn.
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- Why do you like touching down there?
Well, most men like to touch their groin subconsciously. Even small toddlers make this move without intention.
But women wonder why men do this. Is it to intimidate women, or is there something scratching your penis? Or do men just do it to make sure that their member is still in their position?
Many reviews report that men touch their members between 20 to 30 times a day. That’s a whole lot of many times, almost once an hour.
Still, there are legitimate times when they touch their penis. They do it in the bathroom or even when urinating. Still, this is about 10 to 14 occasions only.
This also means that men aren’t aware of why they engage in this spree during the rest of the touching occasions. Many factors cause you to touch your member.
It could be in a tight position and needs to be repositioned. This way you use your hands to do it. Maybe after shaving, the after-burn effect may be causing itchiness and you need to be calm.
Sometimes though it’s just a habit. You become stressed or tense and the first spot you reach for reassurance is there.
- Do you prefer to pee when seated or standing?
Women pee while they are seated. So it’s only natural for them to wonder why men pee while on their feet.
Is it because the trouser design is preventing these men from dropping them down and peeing? Or is it because they are in a rush and can’t wait to unbuckle and remove their trouser for this activity?
Well, men find it easier to urinate standing. They don’t have to lower their trousers to squat and urinate, so it saves them both time and effort.
But this isn’t the best peeing position. Many urologists advise that you should sit or squat while urinating.
Squatting has many reproductive health benefits. It fires your urinary tract, ensuring that all urine is discharged.
Then, a sitting position is ideal for your prostate. And men suffering from lower urinary tract symptoms LUTS are advised to stick to squatting position as per a PubMed Central publication.
A meta data review of 11 literature on the performance of healthy men vs those that have LUTS found that sitting improved complete discharge of the bladder by men suffering from LUTS. There was no difference using both urinating positions for healthy men.
The glands aren’t stimulated to affect the bladder, they are also more relaxed. Still, you maintain the reproductive organs’ natural arrangement.
You should hence, get into this position each time you what to urinate.
In conclusion, we have put together five queries women have about penises. We hope that with this information, you can understand their perspective and minds about the penis a little better and make the choices you need to.
SIMILAR QUESTION
How Small Is Too Small For A Woman
Introduction
The size of a penis has been a source of fascination and debate for centuries. From ancient myths to modern day jokes, the size of a man’s penis has been a source of intrigue, curiosity, and anxiety for many. But what about the size of a penis for a woman? How small is too small for a woman? This paper will explore the meaning of a small penis for a woman, the associated risks, and the possible solutions.
Definition of a Small Penis
The medical definition of a small penis is one that is less than 2.8 inches in length when erect. This is known as a “micropenis”, which is defined as a penis that is less than 2.5 standard deviations from the average size. A micropenis is usually diagnosed during infancy or childhood and can be a source of concern for parents.
Risks Associated with a Small Penis
A small penis can cause physical and psychological distress for a woman. Physically, a small penis can be uncomfortable during sex, as it may not be able to penetrate the vagina or provide enough stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm. It can also cause a lack of sensation or pleasure during sex, which can lead to dissatisfaction and a feeling of inadequacy. Psychologically, a small penis can lead to body image issues, low self-esteem, and feelings of shame. It can also lead to feelings of embarrassment or insecurity when undressing in front of a partner.
Possible Solutions
Fortunately, there are several ways to address the issue of a small penis. First, it is important to talk openly and honestly with a partner about the issue. This can help both partners to understand and accept the situation, as well as to explore ways to make sex more pleasurable for both partners. Additionally, it is important to seek professional help if needed. A physician or therapist may be able to provide support and advice for dealing with the physical and psychological issues associated with a small penis. Finally, there are a variety of products and techniques available to enhance pleasure during sex, such as lubrication and sex toys. These can help to make sex more enjoyable, regardless of penis size.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the size of a penis is a source of anxiety and concern for many. While there is no definitive answer to the question of how small is too small for a woman, it is important to take into account the physical and psychological risks associated with a small penis. Fortunately, there are a variety of solutions available to address the issue, such as talking openly with a partner, seeking professional help, and using products and techniques to enhance pleasure during sex.
